[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/mate-pocit-ze-ztracite-svou-tvar-i-idelaly\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/mate-pocit-ze-ztracite-svou-tvar-i-idelaly\/","headline":"M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee ztr\u00e1c\u00edte svou tv\u00e1\u0159 i idel\u00e1ly?","name":"M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee ztr\u00e1c\u00edte svou tv\u00e1\u0159 i idel\u00e1ly?","description":"M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee ztr\u00e1c\u00edte svou tv\u00e1\u0159? \u017de u\u017e to snad ani nejste vy, kdo pln\u00fd ide\u00e1l\u016f vstupoval do man\u017eelstv\u00ed…? Ale…","datePublished":"2021-10-30","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"uniad.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"uniad.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/Sn%C3%ADmek%20obrazovky%202021-11-29%20061618.png","url":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/Sn%C3%ADmek%20obrazovky%202021-11-29%20061618.png","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/mate-pocit-ze-ztracite-svou-tvar-i-idelaly\/","about":["Slu\u017eby"],"wordCount":465,"articleBody":"   M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee ztr\u00e1c\u00edte svou tv\u00e1\u0159? \u017de u\u017e to snad ani nejste vy, kdo pln\u00fd ide\u00e1l\u016f vstupoval do man\u017eelstv\u00ed…?Ale vy nemus\u00edte ztr\u00e1cet svou tv\u00e1\u0159, ide\u00e1ly mo\u017en\u00e1, proto\u017ee man\u017eelstv\u00ed je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm sou\u017eit\u00ed dvou p\u016fvodn\u011b naprosto ciz\u00edch lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se jednou poznaj\u00ed, p\u0159esko\u010d\u00ed jiskra a najednou zjist\u00ed, \u017ee bez sebe nemohou existovat. Takov\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f je mezi novoman\u017eeli mnoho, kdy\u017e si nasad\u00ed r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 br\u00fdle a nerozhl\u00ed\u017eej\u00ed se napravo, nalevo, vid\u00ed jen toho sv\u00e9ho vyvolen\u00e9ho \u2013 vyvolenou a jsou p\u0159ichyst\u00e1ni pro druh\u00e9ho sn\u00e9st modr\u00e9 z nebe.Jen\u017ee ide\u00e1ly a \u017eivot jsou naprosto rozd\u00edln\u00e9 a pokud se vytrvale dr\u017e\u00edme sv\u00fdch idej\u00ed, a nehodl\u00e1me si p\u0159iznat, \u017ee ten druh\u00fd je prost\u011b \u201ez masa a kost\u00ed\u201c se v\u0161emi sv\u00fdmi klady, ale i z\u00e1porn\u00fdmi vlastnostmi, pak na\u0161e spole\u010dn\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee za\u010d\u00edt \u201esk\u0159\u00edpat\u201c.Jsou p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 si dovedou poradit samy, kdy\u017e si najdou spole\u010dnou chv\u00edli o samot\u011b a jsou schopni si v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 je bol\u00ed, vy\u0159\u00edkat bez vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho obvi\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed, ale to se jedn\u00e1 zpravidla o vyzr\u00e1l\u00e9 osoby.Pokud jste mlad\u00ed a nev\u00edte, jak d\u00e1l a tr\u00e1p\u00edte se a domluvy nepom\u00e1haj\u00ed, ale st\u00e1le m\u00e1te svou drahou polovi\u010dku r\u00e1di, pak nen\u00ed t\u0159eba plakat nad rozlit\u00fdm ml\u00e9kem, ale p\u011bkn\u011b tu kalu\u017e set\u0159\u00edt za pomociterapeutick\u00e9 podpory Praha, kde v\u00e1m budou n\u00e1pomocni.Uji\u0161\u0165ujeme v\u00e1s, \u017ee nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 ostuda kontaktovat psychologickou pomoc, naopak na sebe m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt hrd\u00ed, \u017ee jste nehodili flintu do \u017eita a nepodali hned \u017e\u00e1dost o rozvod. Sami v\u00edte, \u017ee neshody \u0159e\u0161it chcete, jen nev\u00edte jak. Ani nemus\u00edte sb\u00edrat odvahu, proto\u017ee v\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1 empatick\u00fd rozhovor s terapeutkou, odbornic\u00ed na mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy, kter\u00e1 se dovede v\u017e\u00edt do va\u0161\u00ed situace a z pohledu t\u0159et\u00ed a nez\u00e1visl\u00e9 osoby v\u00e1m dok\u00e1\u017ee nast\u00ednit va\u0161i situaci i z jin\u00e9 str\u00e1nky. A vy najednou uvid\u00edte, \u017ee v\u011bci se daj\u00ed pochopit i t\u0159eba jinak a najednou i porozum\u00edte sv\u00e9mu prot\u011bj\u0161ku \u2026Pochop\u00edte, \u017ee nem\u00e1 smysl v\u017edy tvrdohlav\u011b trvat na sv\u00e9m p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed a n\u00e1zoru, ale \u017ee v man\u017eelstv\u00ed je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 um\u011bt se spolu domluvit, je to o spoust\u011b tolerance, ale tak\u00e9 o sm\u00edchu a dobr\u00e9 n\u00e1lad\u011b. A tu budete m\u00edt, kdy\u017e p\u0159ijdete na to, \u017ee va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed nekrachuje, jen prost\u011b proch\u00e1z\u00ed kriz\u00ed, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 ale \u0159 e \u0161 e n \u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee ztr\u00e1c\u00edte svou tv\u00e1\u0159 i idel\u00e1ly?","item":"https:\/\/www.uniad.cz\/mate-pocit-ze-ztracite-svou-tvar-i-idelaly\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]